i am really upset can u please help me ?

i am a doctor, done my mbbs from india,n worked there for 3 years and then on advice of a consultant i came here in romania to do my postgraduate studies in surgery , in india i was earning about 25000 Rs/- per month i.e. about 600 USD. About romania i was told was that this university was very good one ineurope and the hospital setups here are too good , but not as good as western europe, and i paid about 2000 USD to the consultant and 4200 USD for one year course fees, and have spent in travelling and living about 2000 Usd in 5 months, but i was told that here in romania i can get a job and earn some money to take care of my studies from next year onwards and also my living , also that i may be getting various scholarships as i am a studious kind of a guy, now after coming here i realise that the quality of medical education here is worst than any backward country and the status of the hospitals here are worst than those in villages in india,……… please see details
moreover i was told that getting scholarships is too difficult here for foreigners, and there are absolutely no jobs here in romania, and even if we get one , maximum u can earn is 150 – 200 USD per month.this is the economical status if this place, there is no teaching here at all and when i ask about the course they say that u are doing specialisation u have to read urself and if have doubt u ask, that i feel i can do sitting at home , there are no exams here per semester and there is one only after completion of a six years course, do whatever u want to in the hospital and no one cares if u are coming to hospital or not ,doesn’t it sounds absurd, and i do not get any stipend too . many romanian boys in the hospital after seeing my experience n knowledge say that this country is not meant for me and it would be advisable to return back.
now i feel that i should leave this place, but i think about the money i have wasted , these thoughts are eating me up, tell me what should i do?
also i have an option of going to states next year as my fiancee is there in states and i can go on a dependant visa, but i cant take any decision, as i dont want to depend on her, and she too says that i return back to india and work for sometime there and next year go to states and do something better. tell me what should i do?

There is an adage that states "Don’t throw good money after bad." Yes, you have spent money to gain this opportunity in Romania, but it is clearly a waste of your time. Don’t keep spending money to stay there.

It seems to me that your choices are between India and the US, and that you may choose returning home to India for a year before going to the US.

If you can earn a good amount of money while back in India, this would be your best choice. Then you would have some money to start out with in the US, and not have to depend upon your girlfriend.

It is clear to me that you have realized that Romania is not going to work out for you. You should leave as soon as you can. You cannot get back the money you have spent, but you can refuse to spend more.

I wish you every success.