How do I help my boyfriend be more motivated?

Hi,

I wanted some opinion on how to help my boyfriend. We are both about to graduate but whereas I am proud of my 2:1/first I think my boyfriend is feeling down about his 2:2 in law.

I want him to be happy and to think about other opportunities he can do that maybe are’nt law and that he will be interested in but i’m not sure i’m getting through.

He keeps coming up with ideas that he is really enthusiastic at the time but when I ask what he has done to look into them, like websites or sending away for information he never seems to have followed it up.

I’m trying really hard not to be pushy and send him to the careers office, send off for course info and present him with websites but i’m worried.

He now says he wants to stop going to lectures and just focus on the extra reading but again i’m not sure this will help.

Lastly, and i know this is a bit selfish, I want him to be able to get a job so we can stay together when i do my postgraduate study. If he has no job or has no plan isnt it more likely he will go home because he cant afford to stay with me?

Any advice or where I can point him would be greatly appriciated

xxx

Tu lui fais une pipe xD! et sa devrai le remettre en route